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Love is a trap

             LOVE IS A TRAP.....   Love is a Trap. Now I don't necessarily mean that in a bad way... let me explain, Love Hurts....in loving someone we give them the power to maim us in ways that we cannot even imagine. Doesn't matter what kind of love either, it applies to all love. However, we willingly relieve someone who's hurt us of their responsibility for doing so. That is absolutely absurd.            I had a rough childhood, viciously physically abusive father, emotionally unavailable, neglectful mother. I went through my childhood hiding bruises from my dad, wearing dirty clothes that smelled to hell of cat urine because my mom didn't care enough to neuter the male cat, What's worse is she didn't care enough to make sure our clothes were clean. Some days my hair wasn't combed and my face was dirty. My mom was the epitome of a battered woman. She tried so hard to fly under Dad's fists that everything else jus...